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34           Issue #90  July 2020                                                           www.sportsenergynews.com


                    In The                                                          scouting and speaking to me earlier in   However you feel about different


                                                                                    the year. They thought someone was  aspects of your health, don’t get
                                                                                    playing a joke on them when I showed  discouraged.  The entire point of
            ZONE                                                                    up, like I was the younger brother. I  evaluating this is to gain clarity on

                                                                                    knew nothing about nutrition, proper  what kind of plan you need to put
                                                                                    hydration,  adequate  sleep,  balanced  together for your wellness.  As you
                                                                                    workouts, etc. It was around that time  unpack how you feel about wellness,
                                                                                    a coach took me under his wing and  you can then break it down into more
                                                                                    trained me in a more balanced, healthy  detail. Don’t be afraid to dig deep to
                                                                                    way.                                  determine why your feelings are what
        With Justin Roethlingshoefer
                                              go back to the gym. I was overzealous,   In my experience, I’ve learned there  they are.   We must be honest with
                                              to say the least. Obsessive might be a  are three groups of people who have  ourselves before we can improve.
        Own Your Wellness                     better word.                          different approaches to working on      In the last article, we discussed


          grew up in  Western Canada, and       It all stemmed from having this body  their health. The first group starts out  determining your values to guide
        I like most Canadian kids, I lived for   image and the positive reinforcement I  fast and furious and burns out after  your approach to everything you do.
        hockey. When I was 12 years old, I was   received from people when they saw  a month or two.  The second group  Now, we are going to begin putting a
        a chubby kid.  I started doing a lot of   how I had changed. I was never an  approaches  getting  fit  as  I  did  as  a  structure together so you can achieve
        calisthenics, plyometrics, agility drills,   overweight kid,  but  very  thick  and  teenager - they are effectively “sick  your  “High  Performance  Life”.  If
        and speed work as I began to train with   chubby when I was 10 and 11, so I  fit.” They may look lean and fit, but  something  is  important like  your
        my peers. I was always playing league   would get teased. During my anorexic  they are very unhealthy individuals.  wellness, it becomes necessary to
        hockey, so I was continually going up   stage, I was still playing AAA hockey,  That is where I was at 16. The third  schedule it.
        against the best kids in Edmonton. I   but my performance on the ice wasn’t  group knows what they need to do to    Now, before you cringe at this
        wanted to succeed in my chosen sport,   being affected. I remained a straight A  maintain their health and work at it. I  thought, since you probably feel you
        so I became one of the youngest gym   student, but I started alienating myself  want you to be in the third group, and  already have your life scheduled out
        rats around.                          from certain friend groups because  you can be with a little discipline.    to the max, hear me out. I understand
          I remember when I went back to      I didn’t want to do things with them,   This is not going to be a game  those of you who might feel that way
        school after an intense summer of     like going out for pizza or eating junk  plan for the best fitness and nutrition  but take a look at your schedule. Do
        conditioning. I was about 14, and when   food. I didn’t want any part of that.   strategy.  For one thing, that would be  you have any real “me” time in your
        I walked into a classroom, two things   At 16 years old, I entered a hockey  an entire book, and I have co-authored  schedule, or is it all work-related? If
        happened; people didn’t recognize     program and one of my coaches was a  a couple on the subject. Also, there’s  you have a family, are the other entries
        me and I heard comments like “Wow,    man who had coached me on a AAA  no  “one  size  fits  all”  when  it  comes  about what kids need to be where and
        you look good,” or “How did you lose   team when I was 12. When he first saw  to maintaining a healthy lifestyle.  when? For most people, this is their
        that weight?”  Their remarks went     me, he didn’t recognize me because I  My professional career for the past  schedule! If the word schedule puts
        straight to my head and motivated me   was underweight, gaunt, and distant.  ten years has involved developing a  you off, then think of it as a strategic
        to work even harder. When you’re a    He called my parents and asked, “Is  customized program for college and  plan. In business or an organization,
        teenager (or any age), those words of   Justin okay?  What’s going on?” My  professional  athletes  to  maximize  such a plan shows what needs to be
        affirmation  sound  as  if  they  are  part   parents told him what was happening  their ability, and they are all different.  done  in  the  next  one,  three,  or  five
        of some great love language.  They    because they saw my deterioration       What I want to talk about is how to  years and beyond to meet certain
        became a significant reinforcement for   too. He talked to me one day about it,  prepare yourself to achieve the fitness  goals. This is what you are going to do
        my goal of being more physically fit   but I was at the point where I wouldn’t  level you want. First, how do you  for you. But, unlike those companies
        compared to my hockey peers.          listen to anybody. I knew it wasn’t  feel about your health?  When I ask  who spend lots of money and time on a
          This is where balance came into play   healthy, but I was afraid of going back  questions like that, this is when I want  strategic plan only to put it in a drawer
        for me. Actually, and more accurately,   to where I was before.             you to match up the subject to those  until the next time, you’re going to
        it was a lack of balance. I wanted to   After seeing therapists, dieticians,  emotional words we talked about  continually work on your plan.
        perpetuate that positive feeling related   and doctors, I ultimately entered  before:  do you feel joy, fear, passion,   Once you implement your plan,
        to what everybody thought about me.   the Eating Disorder Program at the  love,  anger, pain, shame,  or guilt?  it will soon become a part of your
        My body image became distorted,       University of  Alberta Hospital, but  As you can tell from my backstory, I  everyday life.  The number varies a
        and I figured I needed to work even   not by choice. Doctors, coaches, and  have a passion for my health. For me,  little, but most psychologists concur
        harder  in  my  workouts  to  look  even   parents pretty much threatened me  it  started  out  as  a  fear,  but  through  that it takes about 21 days of steadily
        better than I thought I did. I entered   if I didn’t go.  Walking in there was  education and some great mentors,  doing something for it to become a
        an anorexic stage:  I would eat, but   something I’ll never forget.  There  my relationship with my health went  habit.
        I would exercise  to  work off more   were kids of all ages hooked up to  from a negative to a positive. Once I     Based on all we read on wellness, it
        calories than I consumed. I would     various machines and feeding tubes.  changed my perspective  on  healthy  is time to be true to yourself in looking
        run upstairs any time I could — in    I remember asking myself, “Where  body image, I could match my passion  at your health:
        the house, in school, going to a mall   am I? I’m not sick like this. There’s  with knowledge about how to achieve   1. How do you feel about your
        — everywhere. As soon as I finished   nothing wrong with me. It’s everybody  this correctly. Everyone reading will  general health and wellness today?
        a meal at home, I’d run upstairs and   else.”                               have a different answer for various  What emotions would describe your
        start doing push-ups and sit-ups. After   To give you some perspective on the  reasons when I ask this question. You  attitude to your health?
        every lunch hour at school, I was in   necessity of this intervention:  at aged  can further break down the question   2. Have you always felt this way
        the gym. Every morning, I’d go to the   12, I weighed maybe 130 pounds and at  by asking yourself how you feel about  about your wellness? If not, what
        gym before school. We’d go to hockey   16, I weighed 98 pounds. I remember  getting  out  to  exercise,  your  eating  changed – when and why?
        practice, and I’d tell my parents to   going  to  my  first  WHL  camp  after  habits, getting enough sleep, and even   3. Exercise
        come an hour after it ended, so I could   the draft. The coaches knew me from  drinking enough water.                         Continued on page 35
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